Couldn't agree more, especially when you met someone who are taking control of everything.
Sadly, I'm considering I'm one of the bird, who are chained.
Yes, I'm free to do anything I like when I'm home. I can play games for hours or read comics for hundred of episodes.
But, it just like you let a bird to sing or dance in the cage freely. It has not much of meaning inside it.
I'm a guy too, I like the idea of taking control in everything. Not being controlled, not at least this kind of level.
I added a female, a female committee in my society. As a committee member myself, I don't see any problem with that. She just a nobody to me except a functioning committee member.
So...what's wrong that I didn't tell anyone about I added a friend in facebook?
Let's describe it simple and clear. Do you tell your mum that you want to go to pee? No...!!! You will just prefer answering your mum about where you been just now if she asked. Not telling her that, " Hey mum, I'm going to pee."
Bah... lets get serious, you don't report to anyone when you added a primary schoolmate right? It's just simple as that...!
Same case, I prefer to tell you anything that you ask, rather than report to you everything before I do it.
I'm not gonna lie about it, I will tell you everything. But not reporting in advance.
Stuffs like this will got me exploded when "I'm free". It is because I do appreciate freedom a lot.
I know you will have a sense of security if I do report every tiny things in my life to you. But, it should be at least at an appropriate level, which I recommend; " You will get any answer as long as you asked, or I will tell you if I think the issue is important enough."
